Offline Etiquette: Eschewing the Digital 'Social Cut'
It's forming in bars, dinner parties and sixth grade quads. Emily Post called it the "social cut." A history.com article, 'Cutting' Was the Brutal Victorian Version of Throwing Shade , said it was used judiciously, "a weapon to be wielded with extreme care, preferably in situations of dire social peril." With no more aggression intended in the digital era than the Victorian, the social cut has resurfaced, and it's a move many now struggle to abstain from. "Etiquette guides warned against the practice , advising gentlemen to 'slow fade,' or gradually ghost someone, instead of using a full-blown cut, which 'is not only very harsh, but is often attended with dangerous consequences,'" Erin Blakemore, the history.com author wrote. Blakemore's 2004 article is worth revisiting in 2018. Without knowing it, we all who adopted early and dutifully the smartphone -- an expanding recursion on 2007's iPhone wave -- dropped ...